Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Rowing with Blueberries: Day Two

We started our blueberry learning day with worksheets that I downloaded from Homeschool Creations (one of my favorite "go-to" blogs for homeschool ideas and printable's).


The first worksheet's that we did was a pre-writing practice series of sheets. When Vada and I do these, I always do it in steps. The first step is her and I do the practice together, in a hand over hand fashion, my hand over her's. After we have finished all of the pre-writing worksheets I then give her a new color of dry erase marker and give her some free time to "practice" on her own. I feel, by always following the same steps she knows what to expect and what is expected of her and because of this she is also able to be motivated to finish the exercise with me because she thoroughly enjoys her free time to write on her own.






I usually stay seated next to Vada through everything that we do including her free time (for now), I use it as a time to acknowledge verbally what she is doing. Today, I talked about the color of marker we used together and how the blue matched the blueberries and then I told her how she was using the color purple to "write". Once I said that she was "writing" she stopped what she was doing, put her marker down and began to do the ASL sign for "write". She amazing me! Every. single. day!




I surprisingly replied to her signing and once I did she stopped signing and went right back to her writing. She can be very serious about her school work!


Next we played "Where is Little Bear?" This game was created from the some of the characters in Blueberries for Sal, the book that we are rowing this week. 


I like to think of this game as a pre-reading and reading comprehension game. I laminated the sheets verses using them in Vada's journal, I saw too much potential in it and wanted to keep the game to use it more than once.


Since Vada is not currently reading independently, I read the cards to her and then I have her a "Little Bear" card and asked her to put him where asked, this is where the reading comprehension comes into play.


Vada needed a lot of direction as to where she was suppose to put "Little Bear", but I didn't expect her to be able to do this on her own, I expected this to be the beginning of many times of playing this game. I was actually very satisfied with her interest and her listening skills while doing this activity and her ability to follow my directions because when it comes down to it, in the very end, Vada did get "Little Bear" where he was suppose to be on each card.



Next we did math with some blueberry counting!


For this activity I reintroduced the numbers 0-5 to Vada and I did it in many different ways to show that numbers come in many different ways.



After looking and the worded numeral and specifically saying "This say's one." I then showed her the numeral cards and said, "This is the number one." Then I showed her the blueberry card(s) and said, "We have one blueberry." Next I would give her a blue pom-pom (our "blueberry" or "pom-berry") and say, "Here is one blueberry." and then I would ask her to put the pom-berry into the blue bucket as I counted out loud. We did the steps for numbers zero through five.






For a craft and as a fine motor activity I had Vada put "blueberries" (or smiley face stickers) onto a picture of a pail that I downloaded from a google photo search.




She really stuck to this activity, HA! and she really concentrated! There was a couple of times that I asked her if she wanted another sticker and she would shake her head "no", but I would coax her and say "Awhh, come on, your doing so well, lets do one more!", and that worked for at least five more times! This is a hard activity for her, especially since she does have such a hard time getting her fingers isolated but like I already mentioned, she really did work through her problems and did a great job!




After she put her blueberries onto the pail, I gave Vada a silver crayon to color the pail with and to kind of give her a break from the hard work that she was doing.


After she was finished coloring, we hung the pail and blueberries on to the "I did That Wall" and it'll stay there until the end of this row. Then i'll take it down to put it into her journal.


We did two crafts today. Our second craft began with us taking 1x1 inch squares of blue tissue paper and polling them into tiny balls, these would be our blueberries later.


Next, I brought out a capital letter "B" that I also printed off from google images and had Vada use her Q-Tip to smear Elmer's glue onto. 


As she put on the paste, I began to show her how to put on the "blueberries", only she was more interested in painting with the glue, so it became a two person craft. I did get her to put a couple of blueberries onto the letter "B", but only a couple. 


This craft also was hung on the "I Did That Wall" and will be put into her journal. Tomorrow, once the projects have dried we will work on hand over hand cutting together and then re glue each craft to a new colored sheet of paper that will go into her journal book.


For lunch I wasnt overly inventive, in fact we kind of ate very similar to what we had yesterday! We had egg salad sandwiches and fresh blueberries (similar because of the eggs and fresh blueberries).


However, we did try something new, V-8 V-fusion Pomegranate Blueberry juice and for desert, for the girls (I don't do Jello) I made blueberry Jello.


Vada liked the Jello.

Monday, August 5, 2013

Blueberries for Sal: Day One

For our second week (or time) of rowing we chose to read Blueberries for Sal, by Robert McCloskey. This is a really cute book about a little girl and her Mama who go out on a hillside to pick blueberries to store them for the upcoming winter. The book was published in 1948 and is a 1949 Caldecott Honor award winning book and to me, seems like a timeless classic, it's a sweet one. 


For lunch we had breakfast foods and I made sure to serve plenty of blueberries!


We had fresh blueberry pancakes, fresh blueberries and scrambled eggs.


And almost everything was served in or on some shade of a blue dish.


After lunch we went down to our classroom and started with some "doh-berry" finger isolation squash counting. In the photo below you can see that Vada extends all of her fingers while using her pointer to push the "doh-berry". What I can't show you is the work that her and I did together, the real work. Vada needs to work on isolating all of her fingers except the finger that she wants to use, in this case her pointer finger. Once I put the camera down, I helped Vada isolate all of her fingers by holding them into a fist while she used her pointer to squish each doh-berry. After she pushed her pointer into one doh-berry I would let go of her hand and have her put that pushed down piece of puddy back into it's container and then I would grab her hand and we would do it again. After four or five times of doing this, I could tell that she was getting the hang of what we were doing. 




After all of the play-doh balls had been pushed back into its container I rolled it back into one big ball and added a couple of smaller animals and had Vada use her pincer grasp to get the tiny critters out.



Today was all about fine motor skills! I didn't intend for it to be that way but it just turned out to be one of those kinds of day! After playing with the play-doh we used pom-poms as our blueberries for our next activity. I brought out three different tweezers and showed Vada how to use them and what I wanted her to do with them. I wanted her to use the tweezers to pick up the "berries" and drop them into the basket. 



As you may notice, she needs some help with the grasp on the tweezers. Once again this was something that we worked on together, once I put the camera down.


After working on it together she did show improvement on her own!


And, she even got some "blueberries" into the basket. Sure, she may have picked most of them up with her pincer but hey, we're working on it!


Next we worked on an all blue puzzle. Before I go on let me just clarify that I did this puzzle. I asked Vada to help hand me pieces of the puzzle as well as asked her to turn the pieces over so that we could see the picture on the piece. To keep her engaged, I continued to talk as I put the puzzle together. I talked about every photo that we saw as I was connecting the pieces together. 



Vada was very observant throughout this time. She notice the sucker immediately and began pretending to lick a sucker and pointing to it as soon as I put the pieces together to complete the picture. She noticed the fish and signed fish and she pointed to the blueberries and signed "grapes" which is what she has always signed for blueberries. Now that I think of it, I should go figure out what the sign for blueberries actually is...



Earlier in the day I had prepared this "pie" for Vada to use her fingers to paint her very own blueberries on to.


Vada has a love/hate relationship with getting messy. She thoroughly enjoys crafts but becomes slightly uncomfortable at the mess she sometimes gets into. 



Of course the pie went onto "the I Did That Wall".

So, after making blueberry finger paint pie, Vada got into an all blue bath.






And then got out wrapped up in a soft, warm baby blue towel.



 After Vada was lathered in lotion and put into her p.j.'s we cuddled up onto the couch to watch Blueberries For Sal from our Scholastic's Storybook Treasure Dvd set.

Friday, August 2, 2013

Missing my Mom


Today I read a random post on Facebook. It had a photo of a car accident attached with it and there was of a story about a child wanting to buy a doll for his sister, who had also died along with his mother in that same car accident -the accident was caused by a drunk driver, just like my mom's death. I cried a lot while reading this story. It was a sad and touching story that had multiple meanings but everything about it reminded me of my mom and as I read it I not only felt a sadness from the loss of my own mother but an anger towards Christina (the girl who killed my mom in the accident, I know her name because it was in all of the reports).

I would be lying if I said that I haven't looked Christina up online or even on Facebook because I have. I wanted to put a face to her name, to the person who took my mom from me and I have been able to just that through Facebook. Over the past three months I have silently visited her Facebook page. I know this probably makes me sound like I am crazy but I just cant explain why I keep doing it. (I will never actually contact this girl because in my mind it's not the right thing to do.) but I miss my mom so much and it hurts every. single. day. So, sometimes I go to Christina's page and I really do want to write to her, I want to ask this girl if she knows that she caused another persons death, my mother's death. I want to scream at this girl and ask her what she was thinking and of all things why? Other days I actually want to ask her (Christina) if she is doing okay because I know if I caused another persons life to be abruptly taken, I would not be! However, when I look at Christina's Facebook page she posts pictures of herself looking happy and living life- seemingly moving on and it's more than I can take right now. A great deal of me needs to know that she is not happy about what she did and while I am not proud of that part of myself,  I would be lying if I said anything different.

Ultimately, I just want HER BACK! I WANT MY MOM! and no one can ever give her back to me. No amount of money can make up for what was stolen when Christina decided to get into her vehicle drunk and drove the night she took my mothers life. Nothing can. I keep saying "when this is all over and Christina is finally prosecuted my mom will be at peace", but I think what I really mean is that I will be at peace because regardless of the penalties or fines that Christina may be charged with, nothing will ever be enough to make it okay or better -not in this case. Nothing will ever bring my mother back to me. However, when this is all over and through the grace of God, I may be able to find more peace about my mom, the way she was taken from me and her family and my feelings towards Christina, the person who killed her. Until then, my days, each and everyone feel like its own battle.