A Big Cut

It's been almost a month since I walked into my saloon with the solid decision to cut my long locks off. I had been contemplating it for months already and I had finally made up my mind. I was tired of the mess, of the long lengths (no pun intended) of time that I invested in doing my hair or of the time that I didn't invest only to look like a mess! I wanted something simple, easy and cute. I wanted something short, really short but I was a little nervous to go to short so I settled with a simple "bob-like do".

  

It was a morning appointment but I was offered a glass of wine, which I thought was hilarious! I declined. I didn't need anything to ease this decision away for me, although wine is always good, I was excited for this to be happening.

We didn't officially get a ruler out and measure the length of my hair but my stylist estimated around twelve to thirteen inches (maybe more) that I was able to donate to Locks of Love! Amanda, my stylist said it was the most hair that she has ever had donated at one time. Which made me kind of proud.

Ahhh... I L.O.V.E. my new hair! Love it! And I am already thinking of going shorter next time! I don't think that I will ever grow my hair out again! Ever! 

This is my plan for my next cut. I don't dye my hair but I really, really like the two colors of her hair and I may change my mind and try something new and go with a few highlights for summer... we shall see.

Sweet Patience

Between Jasmine (my oldest daughter) and Kiliegh (my middle daughter) I often find myself wondering what the heck is "wrong" with the two of them. I know that sounds harsh, so let me explain. I have three siblings but grew I up as an only child, about the closest thing that I can relate to is the rivalry between me and my only female cousin-who happens to be the same age that I am. Clearly, I know that nothing is truly "wrong" with either of my girls. Their constant bickering however, does drive me nuts! Overall, I think that their pretty fantastic kiddo's and I am so happy to claim them!

Between Jasmine and Kiliegh there is a obvious"love/hate relationship and depending on the minute (not day) they may or may not "like" each other. I know however, when push comes to shove they would both protect each other-if need be and that alone tells me that the love in their relationship is stronger than the annoyance of one another. Their relationship always throws me off when I watch them with Vada, however. It must be an age thing because both Jasmine and Kiliegh are A.M.A.Z.I.N.G. with Vada. They are kind and gentle. Sharing and sweet. Patient and playful and the best that I could ever ask them to be. They teach her things and spend quality time talking with her, holding her and just being with her. It's a beautiful thing and Vada's bond with each of her sisters is unique. While I pray everyday that the two of them (J and K) will get along better I also thank God for the sisters that they are to Vada.

Today, Vada, Kiliegh and I went to the park. Before leaving the house Kiliegh grabbed a sucker to snack on along the walk. Vada paid no attention to Kiliegh during the walk, as she as preoccupied with all of things going on around her. It wasn't until we all sat in the field and began searching for four leaf clover that Vada spotted something interesting in her big sisters hand and she refused to let up until Kiliegh gave in and shared.

Luckily, it didn't take too much persuasion from Vada before Kiliegh was all being the first to ever Ive Vada a taste of something as sweet as a Tootsie Pop. Kiliegh even took the time to teach proper eating techniques.

We didn't find four leaf clovers this time but I think both girls were lucky in the experience that they shared together.

When we got home we sat out in our yard to play. We like being out doors, when the heat is bearable.

Again, Kiliegh had something that really struck Vada's interest an again Kiliegh was willing to share it, teach about it and even play a tune. All for her baby sister. I had many "proud Momma moments" today.

On a side note I have been working Vada on sharing. A lot of people think that its too early but I think that its never too early to start teaching good manners or right from wrong. Vada may not fully understand that she cant have everything that others have but if we teach her now she will eventually pick up on it-as any tot would. So far, "sharing" consists of us all being very repetitive and very consistent.

A Sweet Girl and Her Hair

First of all I have to admit that when Kiliegh said that she wanted to get her hair cut off..., I did not want to let her do it. Her beautiful red locks has been something that has warmed my visual senses from the moment she came into this world. A couple of years ago she had a short hair cut and it looked great, but I had grown accustom to her long hair again. While the idea to get a cut was not mine (and not one that I would have suggested) she did seem eager to have it done and I understood that having short hair, for her, was easiest to take care of.

So, today I took her to my salon and had my favorite girl (Amanda) give her a "do" that was perfect for Kiliegh's age, hair type and that fit the shape of her cute little face perfectly.


Summer is approaching quickly and this cut will be perfect! I know that with the warm weather approaching lots of ladies are considering new "do's". If your one of those people please consider donating to Locks of Love. This NPO takes your left over hair pieces and creates beautiful wigs for children and young adults (under the age of 21) who are suffering from various illness that in some way or another effects the growth of their own hair. There are some restrictions and guidelines, but if your interested in how you can donate check out their site.


This was Kiliegh's second time donating and over all it was the sixth time for our family.

Her hair cut turn out wonderfully! She looks absolutely adorable and a bit older too. Seeing her hair makes me want to go short again..., only I don't think that I am as brave as Kiliegh was today.